Monday, August 17, 2009

Smile smile

Sometimes, it hurts more to smile in front of everyone than to cry all alone. But sometimes we need to smile even if we are not happy because if we wear a smile on our face, it might just spread to our hearts.
Success in our lives is not final, nor are failures fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts each minute of our lives.
As one of my friend had once said, "Put your ipod on and turn it up all the way;;
Cause music speaks the words when you have nothing to say."

Mistakes

Mistakes are painful, but they’re the only way to tell who you really are. ++ grey’s anatomy.
The biggest mistake you can make is to drift apart from someone, who you once had the time of your life with.
And this my life, getting dumped with no warning. Or liking people who don't like me back, or don't like me enough, or not as much as they like someone else.
Being lonely is not the WORST feeling in the world. Its been forgotten by someone you could never NEVER forget.
You change for two reasons, either you learn enough that you want to, or you have been hurt enough that you have to.
So, speak your mind even if your voice trembles. We do not get unlimited chances to have the things we want. And this I know. Nothing is worse than missing an opportunity that could have changed your life.
Don't ever let life put you down; just know that you will be you. At some point you will change, but life is not going to do that for you. You will have to seek and find how that works, but just don't let anyone stop you from doing what you need to do.

To live in this world, you must be able to do three things:
To LOVE what is mortal,
to HOLD it against your bones,
knowing your life depends on it,
and when the time comes to let it go,
to LET IT GO.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Confessions

Lying in the ocean of roses are so many thorns. Trying to figure out where I am going from here. I have always been a person who avoided confrontation. I have just started talking about misunderstandings, accepting faults, making others realize their mistakes. Just realized how easy it is to let misunderstandings remain like that and move on. But even easier is pick up a phone and talk to a lost/misunderstood friend and sort out things. There is nothing to lose when our hearts are clear. When we were kids and lied to our parents, it was so difficult for us to go to them and confess our mistakes but our parents always forgave us which made us stronger human beings. After all we all are human beings full of emotions. We need support from one person or the other, be it parents, siblings, friends, boyfriend/girlfriend and it is completely OK to accept ones weaknesses.
I have a weakness for chocolates :). Weakness could be for food, clothes, shoes, people we love.
This time I went to India all us cousins sat together and played truth and dare, never knew so many truths, secrets would come out only to realize the fact that we all could be friends in spite of our pasts and trust me it feels so good. Any ray of light at the end of tunnel seems bright enough to feel alive again.
Love has no boundaries, sometimes it makes us stronger sometimes weak. It all depends what we do of our feelings. As there is a ghazal by Jagjit Singh, "Zindagi se ziddi koi she nahi, chalne ki than li tou than li, rukne se kuch hasil nahi, chalte rehne ki inteha manzil tou hai"