Barfiiiiiii

Saw Barfi today. Oh my god Anurag Basu has produced a masterpiece. Visual and emotional treat. People might not remember Bodyguard or Wanted in 10 years but this is a cult movie. Ranbir Kapoor is unbelievable and Priyanka Chopra is adorable. I fell in love with the characters and music. Worse hangover than alcohol ☺.
Anurag has brought forward such a complex thought in a simple way a.k.a ‘Trust’. If we trust the person we love without thinking, life is beautiful and full of love and happiness. How all of us these days complicate our lives with materialistic things. Everywhere I go, the talks of marriage are bound to happen and everyone gives advices that boy should be settled, good family, rich, cultured blah blah blah. But no one ever says marry the person who loves you and trusts your love for him. Half of our lives we worry about the future by thinking about ‘what ifs’. What if he/she is poor, what if he/she becomes physically ill for a long time and you cant take care of him/her. What if we cannot have children, what if our families don’t get along. What if we fall out of love. We have soooooo many what ifs in our lives that we have stopped living in the present. Our love has restrictions and limitations now. There is nothing called selfless love which devours you.
There are extremely few times that we have met that special someone and realized, this is it, but some unforeseen circumstances happen which throw us apart. But if we can trust our partner, those circumstances as destined will still happen but we will know how to deal with it together if the love is true.
The ones who love you will never leave you because even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.
Another good learning lesson from this movie is that love does come again in our lives knocking on the door when we are not even looking ☺ So, the moral of the story is, “Live unpretended and love unguarded.” And yes I am foolish enough to still believe in it!